Understand yourself from Inside.
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These are hard times in India – the economic downturn ,terrorist
attack in Mumbai ,the warlike situation between India and Pakistan
and then the Satyam Scam. Personally , of course it does not affect
me adversely or most of the people ,who stay in small towns
or have never invested in shares or financial commodities.
This would sound selfish to most of us ,but then that’s how the
system works,doesn’t it.Thanks to media we see every thing
live and read – all the pains and sufferings of the affected people ,
the cries of the survivors and ofcourse the melancholy voice of
the narrator with perfect emotions. The people who have lost
their lives, their lifetime earnings or their right to livelihood.We
feel for them but Nobody wants to be a part of them or even
be near them. Human nature ofcourse!The same level of
excitement follows when we see them winning a medal in
sports ,a award for their work or in a lucky draw or in a quiz.
Every body wants fame and recognition ,wants to become
a Slum dog Millionaire—from rags to riches is a dream
that Everybody wants to be true.
So we have two types of persons having opposite personalities
representing two opposite Poles due to two different situations –
1 . Mr Nobody and
2. Mr Everybody.
Mr Nobody. A. 0 B. Mr Everybody
All of us stay between these two poles . Whereas Mr Nobody lives
in a situation where none of us would even dream of coming
near to, everyone of us would like to be in the shoes
of Mr Everybody.Our emotions ,our personality, our attitude and
our aim in life and our development depends on the distance
we are from these two poles. 0 , ofcourse is the equidistant
point between the two.
People living in Poverty ,wounded people ,Bankrupted people,
from riches to rags comes within the range of Mr Nobody
and 0.People Living in luxury , Celebrities ,politicians ,
successful business man ,from rags to riches come between 0
and Mr Everybody.
Our aim and ambition is to stay closer to point B .There are
people who move right from point A to Point B . These are
the successful persons whom we are told to emulate. They
are the examples we are told about in Books ,magazines and
television. These are the persons bestowed with strong
character , and are regarded
as Positive personalities which are developed on their journey
from point A to point B .That is what is called as
experience.The longer the distance the stronger the
personalities become.On the other hand ,we come across
people who are destined to move from Point B
to Point A. These are the people who are victims of misfortune ,
of ill fate and ofcourse creation of their own acts and deeds
– the corrupt and the vice ones. We are also told about them ,
more to learn from their mistakes and misdeeds.They
generate negative personalities which may be as a result
of the situation or by birth.
Those of us who can fight to change can again cross over to
Point B . The Jews did that after second world war ,the riot
victims did that in India after the Partition.People losing
heavily in Business and then starting all over again comes
under the category of fighters.Ability to change the fate and
future comes from a ones downfall only to emerge stronger.
Others perish in front of fate and misfortune.
Their are still others who don’t care i.e. they are indifferent
and have accepted to fate.
Where do I stand ? This is the question which will arise in each
of us ,after reading this article.The answer is simple.
How many times our effort and hard work has been recognized?
How many awards and medals have we won since school days?
How many times have been praised by our teachers and peers ?
Have we been interviewed by press or have we ever been
seen on television? How many times have we been
given responsibilities and delegate tasks? How our fellow
beings treat us—with respect or with disdain? What are
our ambitions and goals and how much have we
achieved it? Have we learnt from our mistakes? What are
our strengths and weakness and how do we convert our
weaknesses into strengths?
Answer these questions and you know what you are.
Ofcourse there are scientific ways to measure these qualities .
Say , from point 10.
How much do we get. How much have other successful men,
from past and present have got. Comparing the two results ,
can tell us where we stand.
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